You are the most important person on the boat. You act as the captain’s eyes. The captain will steer the boat expertly, and in the most enjoyable way possible, based on where YOU are looking. The captain wants the best for you, but gives you complete freedom to tell him what is best for you based on your choices. You make your choices based on where you look (your conscious focus). If you climb the mast and keep your eyes on something beautiful on the horizon, you give the captain lots of time and leeway to give you a gorgeous ride to your awesome destination. But if you get nervous and start looking at the icebergs, the captain will assume that is where you want to go and steer you right into the icebergs. If you lose focus and become mesmerized by where you are, good or bad, the captain will assume you want more of the same and steer you places that reflect more of the same or just turn you in circles. If you lose focus and look behind you (the past), the captain, well, he can’t